When the temptation to “fix” a situation fires up in you, STOP. Most men are hard-wired to react to problems with a solution, but that “solution” is doomed from the start. In this new episode, we talk about difference between “fixers” and true leaders, highlighting why knowing your problems is much more important than “fixing” them. We cover why fixing things is such a bad approach, two simple words to help you ground yourself in stressful situations, and the real reason you want to fix everything and how to anticipate issues BEFORE any damage is done. “Men, we are good at fixing things, but your wife is NOT something that needs to be fixed. Leaders are anticipators who anticipate problems and lead from humility, whereas fixers only react to problems out of fear.”
Let’s be honest: The temptation to “fix” your wife has NOTHING to do with her, and you need to understand the key reason you react to problems instead of anticipating them. – If you want to make the switch from fixer to leader.