3 Secrets of People Who Have Saved Their Marriage

I have watched from the sidelines as people work to save their marriage.  And it strikes me that there are three secrets people who save their marriage learn and master.  If you don’t know these secrets, you need to.
What are those 3 secrets?
1.  They know the difference between Symptoms and Cause.
2. They know their spouse is not the enemy. (You may think you know this, too.  But you may be acting the opposite.)
3. They know they need a plan.  (Not just a thought, or an idea, but a plan.)
If you don’t know these secrets, you need to learn them.