Video Testimonials

“The communication with my wife was always screaming. This program has allowed me to connect with my feelings. I am happy with my wife and family. It has happened tremendously fast. The tools I have learned have not only help me with my wife and family but at my work as a manager.”

“When I started the program, my husband and I had just separated. We had had counseling sessions in the past and we were not very happy with them. The program significantly impacted our marriage even though I was the only one using the program. I highly recommend the program.”

“9 months ago, my wife informed me she no longer wanted to continue our relationship after 27 years. I did not know how unhappy my wife had become. Realizing I had ran out of options I joined the program and followed the instructions. And I not only became the husband she had always wanted but I watched her transform into the wife I had always wanted.”

“I thought everything was going well and suddenly, she said she did not love me anymore and wanted a divorce. I lost control of my emotions. I did not know what to do. I joined the program; bought me some time and I was able to get a second chance. And now we have a deeper connection, and our marriage is thriving.”

“My husband and I got a divorce, and I was pregnant, and I needed help, marriage help. And marriage therapy did not help. He wasn’t even responding. I joined and the program is amazing. A year after my daughter was born, we reconciled. We use the program even to this day.”

“This guy really knows what he is talking about. It’s like you are in my head. My wife was not talking to me or texting me. Now she has been calling me and texting me and the other day showed and asked me if I wanted to get some food. Just applying some little things, things really turn around.”

“My husband started cheating 1 month before our child was born and I was broken. A part of me had died. I did not know what to do. I joined the program on my last leg of hope. It has made a huge difference in my life. I started working improving on me and bringing that into the marriage. I understand what my husband needed. He left the other women and is focusing on our family and our future. It is an amazing feeling spending my life with the love of my life.”

“I have been married 25 years and the last years were very rocky. I was talking to a stranger; it was a terrible feeling. I did not know what to do. My wife brought up the D word, divorce. I cried many nights. I got some hope, what a different feeling. The best thing is how we are able to communicate specifically in conflict. Once she got hope we were off and running.”

“It has been over 2 years since my husband left after 30+ years of marriage. In the program for 1 month and truly see remarkable difference in myself. My husband sees that in me. It helps me with communication to understand him and the complications of the communications in our relationship. I cannot speak highly enough about the program. My husband is softening up, misses me, and this is huge and I know I have a marriage restore coming”.

“Things are going really well between my wife and me. This program just works. My wife had told me that she was not in love with me anymore. I was alone and coping in all the wrong ways. A couple of weeks into the program I learned how to change my wife’s mind. I am not divorced and understand her and make her feel loved.”

“I found myself in a place where I was fearful and desperate. My husband was stonewalling and threatening divorce. I needed help. I started looking at myself and how I contributed to the problems. There is no reason why you cannot be happy despite the problems in a relationship. I am really grateful for the program because I feel stronger and have tools and knowledge to move forward in this relationship.”

“It never struck me that we were headed for divorce. I started feeling depressed. She seemed cold and distant. The structure of the coaching was different. Women think way differently then men and using male logic only makes things worse. It took us from the train tracks of divorce. Now we are doing more things together. It has been a super wonderful process.”

“My mindset prior to the course was I did not know what to do and was desperate. Anything I tried did not work. Communication was hit and miss with my husband. I reacted badly. 3-4 months of doing the course made the difference. There is now a light at the end of the tunnel. It is quite good now. We are working on our issues and getting results.“

“We grew apart and have been separated for 3 months. We spoke with church and friends and family, which did more damage. I joined the program because I wanted to save my marriage. Within 2 weeks the change started to become rapid and we started spending time together. We decided we are going to make this work. We have purchased a house together.”

“This has helped me in all parts of life not just the relationship part. I went into it thinking even if it does not work out, I will be a better person. Without this program I would not be where I am. I never wanted to have regrets. But it worked and I was really surprised by the reaction I got from him. Now it is very different in the best way possible.”

“My relationships have improved, especially with my wife and children. My business has tripled over the past year. I am happy with myself. My life is fun and in balance. Benita has made it easy for me to work on me. I have never felt wrong working with him. I always feel stronger after a session with him. He deals with me from a point of wholeness, not from lack. He communicates directly and lovingly. I am more of a man and the better for having known her.”

“Our marriage has shifted from one filled with constant struggles, tension, and unhappiness, to one with clear communication, compatibility, and experiences that are fun. We will be grateful to you forever!”

“My husband and I did therapy with you 18 years ago when he lost a job and our marriage was floundering. After 51 years, the marriage is more solid than ever and you helped us see the right road to travel. We will always be so grateful to you for your insight and wisdom.”

“From our first meeting I was impressed by your knowledge, insight, spontaneity, professionalism, and creative approach. I trusted that you could help me, but I did not realize how great a help you would be. I appreciate your compassion, your efficient use of time, and your ability to keep the focus of our meetings on track. The lessons you taught me enabled me to understand myself better so that I could make sustained changes.”

“Thanks to you my marriage is restored. But I was just given a huge compliment and I just had to share it with you. My boss told me that she has recognized that I have become someone she can rely on and trust to do more management and personnel functions, and that will be part of my raise. She said she has noticed a big change in me, and she said whatever work I’m doing internally, that it is paying off and to keep doing it! Thank you for your part in that.