You Can Save your Marriage, Even If You Are The Only One Trying
Let Me Teach You The Step-By-Step System That Has Helped Hundreds Of Men Find Their Own Peace & Control And Finally Start Improving Your Relationship With Your Wife…
Let's start with the good news... Yes, you can still save your marriage
Even if she’s having an affair.
Even if she’s moved out.
Even if you don’t recognize the woman you married.
“Is there still a chance she will come back?” is one of the most common questions I get.
I’ll tell you right now… I don’t know your story, I don’t know your situation, but there is a 99.9% chance the answer to that question is YES.
Yes, there is still a chance to get your wife back.
… Even if you’re the only one trying.
Trust me, I’ve seen men save their marriage even when all hope seems lost.
I’ve seen men save their marriage on the DAY they signed divorce papers.
And I’ve seen this sort of miracle story happen too many times to give up hope, no matter how bad things might look like now.
The day that I invited my wife to come talk to me, I had a strange feeling that something was going to happen. When she walked in the restaurant, when she walked right up to me and gave me the biggest and strongest hug, that's when I knew that we were on the road back. She told me it had not gone unnoticed that I had really stepped up and was being the man she knew I was. We spent an entire weekend together and really fell back in love.
You Are Not Alone...
In fact, you might be surprised to learn just how common your situation really is. These stats from the American Sociological Association’s recent study showed some shocking findings.
Most divorces are started by the wife, and most men are shocked that their wife is leaving!
How Often The Wife Is The One To File
70% of husbands How Often The Husband Is Surprised By Divorce
How NOT TO Change Her Mind About Leaving:
The reason that most men feel lost or stuck as they try to save their marriage is because they are putting all of their thoughts, all of their effort, every ounce of energy, into trying to change something that is fundamentally outside of their control!
If you’re like most men, you’ve already tried all the things that revolve around HER changing HER mind.
Convincing her with logic
The decision to leave the marriage is an emotional one, not a logical one. She's going to do what she wants to do, based on what she feels will make her happiest. Your logical argument just sounds like a telemarketer's sales pitch.
Begging for "one more chance"
... And neither will repeated apologies. She knows that your begging is just your fear talking, not your love. She already knew this would hurt you and decided to do it anyways... Shoving your pain in her face hoping it will change her mind just sets you up for rejection.
Guilt-tripping her
I don't care if it's about finances, kids, or the sanctity of marriage. She knows there's going to be consequences, and she has already decided that those consequences are worth getting out of the marriage for.
Repeatedly asking her to explain her feelings
She knows that this is your way of trying to make her justify her decision to you. Whether she owes you an explanation or not isn't about what's right or fair - if she doesn't want to open up, then trying to make her will build her walls higher.
Promising that you will change
She will tell herself that it's too little too late, or that your positive changes will only last until she's come back to the marriage. If you've made promises like that before, then it's even less likely she will believe your promises to change.
Demanding that you both see a counselor
Marriage counseling does not have a very high success rate with mixed agenda couples. In other words, when one spouse wants out, even a good pro-marriage counselor won't have high odds of saving the marriage. There are plenty of pro-divorce, pro-feminism counselors out there who would sooner tell your wife to "seek her truth" than to consider working on the marriage.
Most men start out making this very simple mistake:
They try to change their wife’s mind about divorce.
“What? You’re telling me that I’m not supposed to change her mind about the marriage?! C’mon, you can’t be serious!”
But here’s the thing that every man has to learn before he can make any progress in the separation:
You cannot control your wife!
Sounds obvious, right?
And yet, have you tried any of the methods on the list below?
Your Wife Only Comes Back When She WANTS To Come Back
This critical lesson forms the foundation of everything you’ll learn in this course.
The day that your wife finds herself falling back in love with you will be the day she makes an independent, freewill decision to come back to the marriage.
Therefore, your end goal is to show your wife the sort of husband, father and man that she WANTS to rebuild a relationship with.
Introducing...
THE FORTIFIED SPOUSE
VIP MEMBERSHIP PROGRAM
We help men become a Fortified Spouse so they can restore their marriages and live powerful lives as Men.
The Fortified Spouse Program
The fully immersive, 100+ video foundation to move you out of surviving, to being a truly great husband, father and man. Step-by-step structures that takes all of your doubt away about what you need to do for your marriage and family
Coaching Calls each week
Weekly 1-2hr coaching calls so you get all the help your situation needs. Coaching is the difference between success/failure as you will be coached to implement..More importantly, you will have a community of men sharing and guiding you in your progress.
Personal Guidance When You Need It
Via our secret and private Facebook group We give guidance and answer questions every single day. More importantly you will have a community of Men sharing and guiding you in your progress
Full Hands-on Support
You need to create the changes in your marriage for the long-term for which you need us holding your hand all the way through 30+ Videos in your first month. And 7-15 Videos every month thereafter for over 80 videos that will Guide You to RESTORE your marriage
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Monthly
$297
- Billed monthly, no contracts
- Cancel Anytime, No Questions Asked
- Fortified Spouse Course Framework
- Weekly Coaching Calls
- Private Facebook Support Group
- Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
- BONUS #1: The Stages Framework
- BONUS #2: The 7 Domains Alignment
- BONUS #3: Money Basics
- BONUS #4: Past Call Recordings/Trainings
- Limited spots available
Compare this to the cost of marriage counseling
If you do your research you will find that a really good marriage counselor or therapist will cost you about $150/hour.
If you’re on a call with them 9 hours per week (like our program), that would be $5,805 per month.
The Fortified Sposues Program’s VIP Membership is $297 per month.
Do the math (HINT – SAVE $5,508.00), and that doesn’t even cover the daily guidance, modules or community of men.
Results in their own words...
Just wanted to say thank you. Your course helped me get through a dark time. She was gone. She came back. We went to Europe. We’re buying a new house. We are working on our relationship. God is good. I thank him for making you a means for knowledge to improve myself.
About Arturo Henriquez
Hi, my name is Arturo and I coach men who are going through separation. My job is to help you get the best possible chance of saving your marriage.
To date, I’ve coached, advised or personally helped nearly 1,000 men going through separation, and hundreds of men have have used the resources on The Fortified Spouse to survive separation divorce and affairs and get the best possible chance of saving their marriage.
Seeing that Men are underservced when it comes to Marriage Guidance and Help and coming from a place of personal experience, Arturo has shifted his career to help other men who are battling to Save their marriages and Restore themselves as Men. He is a firm believer that despite common beliefs, you CAN renew your failing marriage WITHOUT months or years of expensive therapy, counseling, and ‘self-help’ books.
In his prior life, Arturo has over two and a half decades of real-life, in-the-trenches business experience as a Serial Entrepreneur and C-Level Executive. As a Serial Entrepreneur, Arturo has started, bought and sold over 55 companies across 18 different industries over the past 25+ years and reaise over $100s of milliions of dollars in debt and equity from banks, venture capitalists and investors.
I'd been seeing lots of good signs of my wife leaning in after what seemed like a really long stalemate and months of being in limbo. Well, it all culminated and we finally turned the corner... We had a great family day enjoying Memorial Day. She went to the gym later and asked me to send her some sexy texts while at the gym. I did and she liked it. Last night we had sex again...the first time in forever we did it two nights in a row... With her being fully on board and participating in our marriage coaching and learning these new tools with me on how to be better partners I truly believe we'll have what it takes to stand the test of time. This has been one hell of a journey, but by God it was a necessary one. I'm a better man for it and I believe my marriage will be better for it. A lot of that is thanks to Arturo Henriquez and this program.
What Happens When You Finally
Focus On The Right Things?
Without The Fortified Spouse
- Frustrated because you can't figure her out
- You try to change her mind but end up pushing her away
- She feels like it's what she wants versus what you want
- She resists conversations with you because she knows you're trying to change her mind
- Every conversation you have with her is complete guess work
- You feel completely lost with no idea how to approach your wife
- It feels like no matter what you do, things keep getting worse and worse
- Your wife sees you as controlling, manipulative and selfish
- She becomes more and more certain that divorce is the right choice for her
With The Fortified Spouse
- Empowered because you finally figure yourself out
- You are able to help her open up and share her honest feelings with you
- She is surprised because you find creative ways to get on the same team
- She lets her guard down because she stops seeing you as self-serving
- You are confident and at ease every time you talk to her or see her
- You have a clear guideline for how you should approach separation
- You finally get some positive moments with your wife, things finally start feeling better
- Your wife sees you as genuine, self-confident and selfless
- She starts having doubts about whether leaving the marriage is the right decision
Monthly
$297
- Billed monthly, no contracts
- Cancel Anytime, No Questions Asked
- Fortified Spouse Course Framework
- Weekly Coaching Calls
- Private Facebook Support Group
- Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
- BONUS #1: The Stages Framework
- BONUS #2: The 7 Domains Alignment
- BONUS #3: Money Basics
- BONUS #4: Past Call Recordings/Trainings
- Limited spots available
More member results
Here's What You Get When You Sign Up:
Instant access to the FORTIFIED SPOUSE online course
First month is over 20 videos and a total of over 100 videos in the program. Start your journey immediately after you purchase, and the help will always be there when you need it.
Weekly Coaching Calls
Weekly 1-2hr coaching calls so you get all the help your situation needs. Coaching is the difference between success/failure as you will be coached into implementation..Many men have told me that this group is the single most valuable part of the course. There's nothing like having the support and advice of other men who've been through what you're going through.
Homework assignments to put what you learn into practice
For the training to "Stick" you need exercises and homewrok. If you want to get the best results possible, you'll get easy-to-follow assignments to help you realize full focus and optimal progress in your life.
Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
8 Video Module with tools and training to apply IMMEDIETELY and STABILIZE the situation and stop the Divore or Seperation and create space to rebuild the marriage
The Stages Framewrok
These are the 5 statges all marriages go through from the brink of seperation, ivorce or even affiar to restoring the marriahe yo Happily Ever After
the seven domains alignment
Learn how integral the five domains are to restoring your marriage and making you the besy man you can be. These include Emotional, Financial, Spiritual, Relational, Integral, Physical and Mental!
The Fortified Spouse Program
You might expect this program to cost in the $10-15 thousand dollars. Most good marriage coaches charge at least $150 per session, and it would take at least 15 to 20 dedicated sessions to teach you the in-depth system you’ll learn in the Fortified Spouse Program.
So if you assumed that this program would be valued in over $10 thousand dollars, you would be absolutely right. This program is extremely valuable, it’s been a game changer for hundreds of men already in the two short years it’s been available.
Just take a look at everything you get when you sign up…
The Fortified Spouse 100+ video course
Weekly Coaching Calls
Private Facebook Support Group
Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
The Stages Framework
The 7 Domains Alignment
Money Basics
Past Call Recordings/Trainings
Implementable Exercises and Homework
TOTAL VALUE
$7,800 value
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$16,692 VALUE
Monthly
$297
- Billed monthly, no contracts
- Cancel Anytime, No Questions Asked
- Fortified Spouse Course Framework
- Weekly Coaching Calls
- Private Facebook Support Group
- Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
- BONUS #1: The Stages Framework
- BONUS #2: The 7 Domains Alignment
- BONUS #3: Money Basics
- BONUS #4: Past Call Recordings/Trainings
- Limited spots available
Still not sure?
What If...
Your 2.0 Self Is Waiting For You Inside
This Separation?
When you stop trying to control the thing that’s most out of your control – your wife – and put your energy instead into controlling and improving yourself, crazy things can happen.
And too many other achievements to list…
All WHILE going through marriage crisis.
I mean, just think about that for a minute. Think about how incredible it would be to be able to look yourself in the mirror and KNOW in your gut that you are looking at the best “self” you’ve ever seen.
When you have that sort of confidence, that sort of self-assurance, it completely transforms the dynamic of the separation. You no longer *need* her to come back, and she will feel that.
Once she believes that you truly don’t need her to come back in order for YOU to be happy, that’s when she can finally open her mind to the possibility of coming back. Because she will know that her coming back won’t be because it’s what you want, but because it’s really and truly what SHE wants.
Just read one of my all-time favorite success stories…
She tells me everyday she loves me...
Here are a list of things I’ve heard from my wife: (please read till the end)
- We are not compatible.
- I don’t think I was ever in love with you.
- We should have never gotten married in the first place, it felt forced.
- I just don’t find you attractive anymore.
- I love you but I’m not in love with you.
- I see you more as a best friend than a husband.
- There is no way we are ever getting back together.
- We will never work well together we’re too different.
- You don’t make me happy.
- I don’t see a future with us together.
- We’re getting a divorce and nothing you can do or change will change my mind.
Today, my wife and I are together. She tells me everyday she loves me. She’s done a full 180. We have sex on a regular basis. We talk we laugh she says we are happy, that she’s happy.
My point is take everything she says with a grain of salt. You will be fine with or without her. Just be the best version of yourself you can everyday. But, know you’ll be fine.
Even More...
"Will this program still work if..."
You know the program presents a system that will work for most men, but you’re not most men. You’re facing unique challenges in your separation. You don’t have time to invest in a course that might not give you the tools YOU need to overcome the unique challenges you’re facing with your wife.
If you’re facing any of the problems below, this course WILL still work for you.
- I'm the only one trying to save my marriage
- She told me, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you."
- She told me, "It's too little, too late."
- She already moved out
- She already filed for divorce
- We are already in mediation
- She's having an emotional affair
- She's having a physical affair
- I had an affair
- She's leaving because of an addiction which I have now sought treatment for
- Her new friend group are all telling her to get divorced
- We have already been separated for over a year
- She ignores all attempts at communication
- I no longer recognize the woman that I married
- Her family is telling her to get divorced
- We don't have kids
- We are a blended family with kids from a previous marriage
- She is leaving because I'm too controlling
- She moved a long ways away
- I have very little contact with my wife
- My wife is completely cold, and will only talk business
- She is dealing with mental health problems
- I think that she is going through a midlife crisis
- She says there is absolutely no way her feelings will change
- Her new friend group are all telling her to get divorced
- I was the one who originally asked for divorce
Monthly
$297
- Billed monthly, no contracts
- Cancel Anytime, No Questions Asked
- Fortified Spouse Course Framework
- Weekly Coaching Calls
- Private Facebook Support Group
- Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
- BONUS #1: The Stages Framework
- BONUS #2: The 7 Domains Alignment
- BONUS #3: Money Basics
- BONUS #4: Past Call Recordings/Trainings
- Limited spots available
We can do this all day...
Are You The Only One Trying To Save Your Marriage?
Here’s Why The Fortified Spouse Is The Best Option Out There
Reason
01
Marriage counseling is expensive and doesn't work when you force her to go... And that's assuming you get a good counselor!
The Fortified Spouse is specifically meant to be used on your own as you battle for the future of your marriage.
On top of that, there’s no guess work involved in The Fortified Spouse. It is a comprehensive all day, all week Program that combines coaching, training and implementation exercises every step of the way so that you are never alone
Reason
02
Marriage retreats are expensive and require your wife to agree to go with you, and you have to find one at a time and place that fits your busy schedule.
The Fortifed Spouse will teach you a comprehensive approach that can carry you through your entire separation to restoration, start to finish.
Believe it or not, it actually makes an excellent compliment to independent counseling… Learn a proven separation strategy from the program, work through your own issues and get ongoing in-person support from a counselor!
If you can only afford one, it’s up to you to decide whether you want to invest in proven separation strategy and mindsets.
Reason
03
Other courses cost $3000 to $10,000+ and most of them only work if your wife is also trying to save the marriage.
The Fortified Spouse Program is much more affordable than most other programs because it was made to serve you as the customer first and foremost and thus it is a monthly payment where you can cancel anytime.
In fact, The Fortifed Spouse wouldn’t even exist were it not for hundreds of men over the years asking me to put together a course that turns my approach to separation into a structured, step-by-step strategy to Marriage Restoration.
This program was built from the ground up to help MEN trying to save their marriage. That’s what makes this program one-of-a-kind.
Reason
04
Other courses use dishonest marketing like "Save Your Marriage Guarantees" to promote their product.
I specifically do NOT guarantee that The Fortified Spouse Program will save your marriage.
Why?
Because anybody who makes that guarantee is lying to you. I’ve seen plenty of books and courses out there that promise once you give them your money, you are guaranteed to save your marriage. Or that you at least have a 90%+ chance of saving your marriage.
This is dishonest marketing. How can you trust the advice you get from someone who uses sleazy sales tactics to sell their course? That’s why the guarantee I make with this programis simple and truthful – I promise you that this program will help you get the best possible chance of saving your marriage.
You’re not a statistic – the only way to know whether you’ll be a success story or not is to buckle down and do the work.
Reason
05
Peace & Control has been more thoroughly tested than every other course out there.
The Fortified Spouse Program is for men looking for an efficient, no-nonsense approach to getting their wife back. No fluff, just results.
Everything you learn in The Fortified Spouse Program has been tried and tested many times over before it landed on your device screen.
To give you an idea of how I tested this course before launching it…
- First I spent about two years just helping men for free, giving free advice to help them through their marriage problems. This is where I honed a proven separation strategy for men
- Then I devised the program and took a group of about 50 guys through it, making sure it solved and answered all their questions.
- Then I revised the program one last time and did a final test run with another group of about 100 guys.
Only then, once the concepts and strategies inside the course had been refined and revised THREE TIMES OVER, did I open the doors up and make the program in this format publicly available as you see here today.
Monthly
$297
- Billed monthly, no contracts
- Cancel Anytime, No Questions Asked
- Fortified Spouse Course Framework
- Weekly Coaching Calls
- Private Facebook Support Group
- Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint
- BONUS #1: The Stages Framework
- BONUS #2: The 7 Domains Alignment
- BONUS #3: Money Basics
- BONUS #4: Past Call Recordings/Trainings
- Limited spots available