Two phone calls the same day. Both with the same question: “What if I CAN’T save my marriage?” One had been working at it for awhile. The other hadn’t started (and was trying to decide whether to even start).
It’s a common question that gets asked at 3 different times in the process. Each has a different meaning. All share a fear.
That fear can keep you from taking action, talk you into giving up, or serve to inform you.
Don’t let the question trip you up. Understand what’s behind it. And listen to my answer to the question.