The Ultimatums…
Have you thought about giving your spouse an ULTIMATUM? Something like, “If you don’t stop XYZ, this marriage is over.” Is your spouse having an AFFAIR, hooked on POR-N, addicted to DRUGS or ALCOHOL, a WORKAHOLIC, too emotionally close to an OPPOSITE SEX FRIEND, or OBSESSIVE about a hobby or activity? How do you get […]
2 Paths to Saving Your Marriage…
A few months ago, I was involved in an interview that was live on a podcast. We had about 1000 people listening in. At the end, most people were hanging up. But two guys, Sally and Wendy stayed on. Sally was going on about how there was no way she was willing to pay anything […]
Love Smart!
I just read a study reporting that the average engaged person spends 12 hours a week planning their wedding. Since the average engagement lasts 11 months that’s 528 hours mapping out the big day. A wedding is an important day in a person’s life. Over 500 hours might be overkill, but I admire people’s willingness […]
How to make the right choice?
Were your mom and dad happily married? Is your marriage like theirs was? If you’re having marriage problems, the chances are good that your parents struggled in their marriage too. Research shows that if your parents divorced, then your marriage is more likely to end in divorce as well. Freud documented well the impact that […]
A building block for restoring a marriage
I’d like to share with you one of the building blocks for restoring a marriage. Now here’s that building block I referred to. Everyone has a reputation. We don’t get to pick, but everyone is known for something. It seems that I’m known for helping people repair broken marriages. And in particular, you could say […]
The Revolving Relationship Door
I have just put the phone down after talking to a guy from Colorado who is really struggling to build a deep connection with a woman that he likes. He’s met this great girl. He digs her. She digs him. But every time they start to get closer, the baggage from his past trips him […]
Can you define your Ideal Marriage?
Check this… Nearly every woman and man I talk to wants to have the perfect marriage…yet they can’t define what that even looks like. That was me about 7 years ago. But currently, I have: An incredible marriage with fearless passion, trust, and communication Complete alignment and clarity on my life’s mission and purpose Stronger […]
Want Us To Help You Save Your Marriage?
There’s a mainstream belief that it takes two to save a marriage. Not true. You have the power to change things alone! …even if your spouse has given up on your marriage. Of course, most people think they don’t have power because they are: · waiting for their spouse to change · trying to change […]
Marriage on the Brink: Mistakes That Push Love Away
Why are couples not learning the correct messages from their mistakes? Every couple I see has fallen into the same traps, leading them to horribly upsetting life conditions. Couples spend years building lives together. They plan families and build homes together. They create lives, yet they spend little time learning the timebomb in their own […]