The truth about your marriage
Let’s cut to the chase… Your marriage needs to change. You’ve been twiddling your thumbs WAY TOO LONG! I bet your spouse doesn’t even like getting undressed in front of you anymore. Maybe getting out of bed feels like a complete drag because your desire and passion for life has been sucked out of you. […]
This destructive habit is damaging your marriage
Many men and women make the mistake of saying: “When I do _______, then I can do ______.” Once I finish my schooling, then I can relax. When I get my finances in order, then I’ll take a vacation. When I lose the extra weight, then I’ll go for a hike in the mountains. When […]
Love makes you do crazy things
We need to clarify something… When trying to “fix” a problem with your spouse, they are actually in a place of subconsciously not realizing that they are actually lacking love and trying to make you feel bad in order to make themselves feel good. Gasp! Read that again…and then ask yourself: Who has that kind […]
What the Fall Means for Married Business women and Men
This is going to be a little “out there”. But stay with me. It’ll be worth it. Seasons aren’t just something that happens in nature. They happen in your business. They happen in your marriage. They happen to every single thing on this planet. A lot of people we work with tell me about the […]
How to make your life a whole lot better
Sometimes in life, we do things that make other people mad.And then they shun you…which isn’t always a bad thing. Unless it’s your spouse. Personally, I think it’s great because it’s a complete waste to spend time with people who don’t accept you or believe in you or love you for who you are… In other words, go where […]
How do you know if your marriage will survive?
Do you know if your marriage will make it? I can tell you with near certainty. But what do you think? If you had to pick ONE THING that best predicts whether or not your marriage will succeed, what would you pick? You might say “conflict.” If you fight a lot, then that’s not a […]
The Ultimatums…
Have you thought about giving your spouse an ULTIMATUM? Something like, “If you don’t stop XYZ, this marriage is over.” Is your spouse having an AFFAIR, hooked on POR-N, addicted to DRUGS or ALCOHOL, a WORKAHOLIC, too emotionally close to an OPPOSITE SEX FRIEND, or OBSESSIVE about a hobby or activity? How do you get […]
2 Paths to Saving Your Marriage…
A few months ago, I was involved in an interview that was live on a podcast. We had about 1000 people listening in. At the end, most people were hanging up. But two guys, Sally and Wendy stayed on. Sally was going on about how there was no way she was willing to pay anything […]
Love Smart!
I just read a study reporting that the average engaged person spends 12 hours a week planning their wedding. Since the average engagement lasts 11 months that’s 528 hours mapping out the big day. A wedding is an important day in a person’s life. Over 500 hours might be overkill, but I admire people’s willingness […]
How to make the right choice?
Were your mom and dad happily married? Is your marriage like theirs was? If you’re having marriage problems, the chances are good that your parents struggled in their marriage too. Research shows that if your parents divorced, then your marriage is more likely to end in divorce as well. Freud documented well the impact that […]