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How to restore HONOR to your marriage

Would you believe there’s a lot you can learn about your marriage from the American flag? There is. Listen up. Recently, I took my kids to Fort McHenry. You know, that’s where Francis...

How to heal old wounds in your marriage

Get a glass of water. Really! Don’t just read on; first, get a glass of water. Got it? Okay. Now, hold the glass of water in your hand and pick it up. Are you holding it up? Now let me ask you...

What to do when one spouse is depressed

Are you depressed? Is your spouse depressed? Do one of you THINK the other is depressed? I recently had a series of phone sessions with a woman named Regina (name changed) who lives in Canada. I asked...

How to be “wise” in your marriage

At some point in your life, you’ve felt like you’re living a lie Whether the lie is big or small, the burden and shame of carrying it around is heavy. Unfortunately, this burden will ruin your...

The truth about your marriage

Let’s cut to the chase Your marriage needs to change. You’ve been twiddling your thumbs WAY TOO LONG! I bet your spouse doesn’t even like getting undressed in front of you anymore...

This destructive habit is damaging your marriage

Many men and women make the mistake of saying: “When I do _______, then I can do ______.” Once I finish my schooling, then I can relax. When I get my finances in order, then I’ll...

Love makes you do crazy things

We need to clarify something When trying to “fix” a problem with your spouse, they are actually in a place of subconsciously not realizing that they are actually lacking love and trying to...

What the Fall Means for Married Business women and Men

This is going to be a little “out there”. But stay with me. It’ll be worth it. Seasons aren’t just something that happens in nature. They happen in your business. They happen in your marriage. They...

How to make your life a whole lot better

Sometimes in life, we do things that make other people mad.And then they shun you…which isn’t always a bad thing. Unless it’s your spouse. Personally, I think it’s...

How do you know if your marriage will survive?

Do you know if your marriage will make it? I can tell you with near certainty. But what do you think? If you had to pick ONE THING that best predicts whether or not your marriage will succeed, what...

The Ultimatums…

Have you thought about giving your spouse an ULTIMATUM? Something like, “If you don’t stop XYZ, this marriage is over.” Is your spouse having an AFFAIR, hooked on POR-N, addicted to...

2 Paths to Saving Your Marriage…

A few months ago, I was involved in an interview that was live on a podcast. We had about 1000 people listening in. At the end, most people were hanging up. But two guys, Sally and Wendy stayed on...

Love Smart!

I just read a study reporting that the average engaged person spends 12 hours a week planning their wedding. Since the average engagement lasts 11 months that’s 528 hours mapping out the big day. A...

How to make the right choice?

Were your mom and dad happily married? Is your marriage like theirs was? If you’re having marriage problems, the chances are good that your parents struggled in their marriage too. Research...

A building block for restoring a marriage

I’d like to share with you one of the building blocks for restoring a marriage. Now here’s that building block I referred to. Everyone has a reputation. We don’t get to pick, but...

The Revolving Relationship Door

I have just put the phone down after talking to a guy from Colorado who is really struggling to build a deep connection with a woman that he likes. He’s met this great girl. He digs her. She digs him...

Can you define your Ideal Marriage?

Check this… Nearly every woman and man I talk to wants to have the perfect marriage…yet they can’t define what that even looks like. That was me about 7 years ago. But currently, I...

Want Us To Help You Save Your Marriage?

There’s a mainstream belief that it takes two to save a marriage. Not true. You have the power to change things alone! …even if your spouse has given up on your marriage. Of course, most people...

Marriage on the Brink: Mistakes That Push Love Away

Why are couples not learning the correct messages from their mistakes? Every couple I see has fallen into the same traps, leading them to horribly upsetting life conditions. Couples spend years...